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Some places feel untouched by time, steeped in an Old Florida charm that's hard to come by. It reminds us that the rarest things in life often arrive when you least expect them. Cabbage Key has become deeply meaningful to us, where island breezes move through sunlit palms and a hint of seaside whimsy lingers through every occasion. We cannot wait to share this special place with you as our wedding festivities unfold.

Friday, October 9th

Pearls & Plumes: A Bridal Luncheon

The Tarpon Lodge
12:00 PM to 2:00 PM

A luncheon for the women of the weekend in honor of the bride, with cocktails, light bites, and a celebratory afternoon.
Chic luncheon attire, with pearls encouraged.

Welcome Party

Cabbage Key Inn & Restaurant
5:30 PM to 8:30 PM

A warm welcome to the weekend, with dinner, drinks, and tropical music on the island.

Saturday, October 10th

Wedding Day

The Tarpon Lodge

Palm Beach Formal Attire

Cocktail Hour

3:00 PM to 4:00 PM

Ceremony

4:00 PM to 4:30 PM

Dinner & Dancing

5:00 PM to 9:00 PM

After Party

Cabbage Key's Dollar Bill Bar
10:00 PM to 1:00 AM

Please Note:

Ferry transportation will be provided between The Tarpon Lodge and Cabbage Key throughout the weekend. For departure times and details, please visit Voyage Times.

Arrivals & Departures

The details below will help you arrive with ease and settle into island time.

By Air

The closest airports are Southwest Florida International Airport (RSW) in Fort Myers and Punta Gorda Airport (PGD).

RSW is approximately 1 hour and 15 minutes from The Tarpon Lodge, while PGD is approximately 1 hour away. From either location, guests may rent a car or arrange for a car service or rideshare to reach the property.

By Car

Guests driving may arrive directly to The Tarpon Lodge.

The Tarpon Lodge
13771 Waterfront Drive
Bokeelia, Florida

Parking will be available on site.

Guests Staying at The Tarpon Lodge

Guests staying at The Tarpon Lodge may arrive directly to the property and check in upon arrival.

The Ladies' Bridal Luncheon will be held at The Tarpon Lodge on Friday, October 9th from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM. If you are planning to attend, please arrive directly to the property by that time.

Ferry transportation will be provided throughout the weekend as needed. Please refer to Voyage Times for schedules and details.

Guests Staying at Cabbage Key

Guests staying on Cabbage Key will depart from The Tarpon Lodge via ferry and be transported to the island to access their rooms and cottages.

The Ladies' Bridal Luncheon will be held at The Tarpon Lodge on Friday, October 9th from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM. Guests staying on Cabbage Key who plan to attend should arrive directly to The Tarpon Lodge, and may check in to their accommodations on the island following the luncheon.

For guests not attending the Ladies' Bridal Luncheon, check-in will take place upon arrival to Cabbage Key. Upon arrival to The Tarpon Lodge, guests may board the next available ferry to the island.

Ferry departures for arrivals on Friday will run hourly from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM. Please refer to Voyage Times for full schedules and details.

Parking

Parking will be available at both The Tarpon Lodge and Safe Harbor Pineland, located just next to the lodge.

Safe Harbor Pineland
13921 Waterfront Drive
Bokeelia, Florida 33922

Parking at The Tarpon Lodge is available for $20 per day and offers the most convenient access for guests staying on property. Additional parking is available at Safe Harbor Pineland for approximately $10-$15 per day.

Departures

As the weekend winds down, please review the departure details below.

Guests departing from Cabbage Key will return to The Tarpon Lodge via ferry, with morning departures available. Guests may plan to board the next available ferry based on their travel schedule.

Guests departing from The Tarpon Lodge may check out and depart at their leisure.

We wish you safe travels home and hope the warmth of this weekend stays with you long after you've left the island.

Please Note:

The opening festivity of the weekend is the Ladies' Bridal Luncheon. If you won't be joining us, we recommend timing your arrival to allow plenty of time to settle in before the Welcome Party. Please refer to Weekend Festivities for additional details.

Transportation will be provided throughout the weekend, and a car will not be needed after arrival.

Guest Quarters

Both properties have been privately reserved for the weekend's festivities. Guest quarters will be thoughtfully arranged, and you will be notified of your assigned quarters following your reply. The property will then be in touch directly to complete your reservation. This is where you'll settle in and step into a weekend of sunlit festivities, island elegance, and timeless Old Florida charm.

The Tarpon Lodge

Guests staying at The Tarpon Lodge will enjoy waterfront accommodations on the mainland within a historic 1926 lodge, where classic Old Florida character meets a relaxed, refined atmosphere. Overlooking Pine Island Sound and steeped in charm, The Tarpon Lodge offers a timeless setting for the weekend's festivities.

To learn more about The Tarpon Lodge, please visit their website below.

Cabbage Key

Guests staying on Cabbage Key will experience island living at its most charming, set across 100 acres of tropical vegetation surrounding its historic inn, restaurant, and cottages. Surrounded by Pine Island Sound, it offers panoramic views, winding nature trails, and a beautifully picturesque setting.

To learn more about Cabbage Key, please visit their website below.

Your Stay

Upon receipt of your reply, the appropriate property will be in touch regarding payment arrangements. You will be notified of your assigned quarters at that time. Kindly confirm your attendance for all wedding festivities on the page below.

Voyage Times

Below are your passage times between The Tarpon Lodge and Cabbage Key, where each crossing unfolds against the waters of Pine Island Sound. A small selection of beverages will be available aboard for your enjoyment. Along the way, you may also catch a glimpse of local wildlife, including coastal birds, dolphins, and even manatees.

Friday, October 9th
Arrival Day

To Tarpon Lodge (from Cabbage Key)

11:30 AM - Bridal Luncheon guests

To Cabbage Key (from Tarpon Lodge)

1:00 PM
2:00 PM
3:00 PM
4:00 PM - Last ferry for Cabbage Key guests
5:00 PM - Tarpon Lodge guests attending Welcome Party

To Tarpon Lodge (from Cabbage Key)

9:00 PM - Tarpon Lodge guests returning from Welcome Party

Saturday, October 10th
Wedding Day

To Tarpon Lodge (from Cabbage Key)

2:30 PM - All Cabbage Key guests

To Cabbage Key (from Tarpon Lodge)

9:30 PM - After Party departure (boarding 9:00-9:30 PM)

To Tarpon Lodge (from Cabbage Key)

11:00 PM - Early departures
1:00 AM - Final departure

Sunday, October 11th
Departure Day

To Tarpon Lodge (from Cabbage Key)

2:00 PM - All Cabbage Key guests

Please Note:

Ferries will depart promptly at the listed times, and we kindly recommend arriving a few minutes early for boarding. Transportation will be provided throughout the weekend.

Dress for the Occasion

Inspired by Old Florida charm with a Palm Beach flair, this weekend invites you to dress up, have fun, and lean into expressive, elevated style.

Ladies' Bridal Luncheon

An early afternoon gathering in honor of the bride, where style feels playful, polished, and perfectly put together.

Think mini dresses in shades of pink, with touches of feathers and pearls, airy linen, and a hint of vintage Palm Beach charm.

Welcome Party

An Old Florida evening on the island, where classic cocktail style meets a warm coastal breeze.

Think shades of green, cream, and coral, airy linens, soft tailoring, and tropical prints that feel right at home among the palms.

Wedding Day

Palm beach formal - vibrant, expressive, and made for a celebration by the water.

Think floor length dresses in bright, joyful hues, pinks, greens, oranges, and turquoise, with sequins, feathers, prints, and statement details encouraged. This is a moment to have fun with your look. Gentlemen are encouraged to wear formal suits or vintage-inspired tuxedos.

A Few Notes:

Below you will find a collection of thoughtful details to guide you through the weekend with ease.

Kindly Reply

We kindly ask that all guests respond by the first of June. You may confirm your attendance via the Kindly Reply page.

Transportation

Ferry transportation will be provided throughout the weekend between The Tarpon Lodge and Cabbage Key. Guests are encouraged to review the Voyage Times page in advance and plan their crossings accordingly.

Ferries depart promptly at the listed times, and we kindly recommend arriving a few minutes early for boarding.

Arrival Timing

Guests are encouraged to plan their arrival with the weekend's festivities in mind. Those attending the Ladies' Bridal Luncheon should arrive directly to The Tarpon Lodge by 12:00 PM on Friday.

For all others, we recommend arriving with ample time to check in and settle in prior to the Welcome Party. Full event timing may be found under Weekend Festivities.

Accommodations

Guest accommodations have been thoughtfully arranged between The Tarpon Lodge and Cabbage Key.

Once your RSVP has been received, you will be notified of your assigned accommodations, and the property will reach out directly with booking and payment details.

For additional information, please refer to the Guest Quarters page.

Parking

Parking will be available at both The Tarpon Lodge and Safe Harbor Pineland, located just next to the lodge.

Parking at The Tarpon Lodge is available for $20 per day and offers the most convenient access for guests staying on property. Additional parking is available at Safe Harbor Pineland for approximately $10-$15 per day.

Island Setting

Cabbage Key offers a natural island setting, with mostly unpaved terrain including shell gravel paths and grass, while The Tarpon Lodge features primarily grassy outdoor areas. Throughout the weekend, guests will also move along docks when boarding and departing ferries, so we encourage planning footwear accordingly.

Island Forecast

October in Southwest Florida is typically warm and sunny, with temperatures ranging from the mid-70s to mid-80s. A light coastal breeze is common, especially in the evenings.

Attire

Each festivity throughout the weekend carries its own dress code. We invite you to review the Dress for the Occasion page for detailed guidance and inspiration.

Plus Ones

Due to the intimate nature of the weekend, we are only able to accommodate those formally included on your invitation. If a plus one has been reserved for you, it will be noted accordingly.

Children

While we adore your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. We kindly thank you for your understanding and for making arrangements in advance.

Island Guide

For those looking to explore, we've curated a selection of local favorites for coffee, breakfast, casual bites, and nearby spots worth visiting. Please refer to The Island Guide for more.

Registry

Your presence is the greatest gift, though should you wish to celebrate with something more, our registry may be found under The Registry page.

Questions

All important details have been thoughtfully outlined throughout the website to guide you through the weekend with ease.

Should anything additional arise, you may reach us at reply@meetmeincabbagekey.com

With Thanks

We feel so lucky to celebrate this season surrounded by our favorite people. As we settle into our first home together in Tequesta. Florida, we're looking forward to many sunny days spent hosting, boating, and enjoying time by the time with family and friends, and of course, our black lab Carter.

We can't wait to make this house a home, begin this next chapter together, and hope to start a family here one day.

For those who have kindly asked, we've curated a collection of pieces for our home and life together. We are so grateful for your generosity, and each gift will be truly cherished as we build our life together.

You may explore our registry below:

Add Invited Guest